A career change rooted in bereavement support
Mary Cope from Cheadle has moved from midwifery training into funeralcare, bringing experience of supporting families through loss into a new setting. She is now a Funeral Arranger at Co-op Funeralcare Cheadle on High Street, six months into the role.
“I was training to be a midwife for two years, but due to a change in family circumstances, I stepped away. I worked in my friend’s café for a few months while deciding what to do next,” Mary explained.
Her interest in funeralcare developed during her time in midwifery, where she worked alongside bereavement midwives and supported families experiencing loss. “I became involved with bereavement charities and still volunteer with one today,” she said.
Starting at Co-op Funeralcare Cheadle
Mary said she applied when she saw a Funeral Arranger vacancy at her local branch.
“As soon as I saw the role, I was drawn to it and knew I’d love it.
“I feel like I’ve found my place now,” said Mary.
What the role involves day to day
The role includes supporting families, liaising with florists, crematoriums and celebrants, and helping colleagues on the day of a funeral.
Mary has also introduced awareness campaigns and set up a bereavement tree, where people can leave a picture, message or ornament in memory of someone who has died.
“I wanted to raise awareness of bereavement support, especially baby loss, which is close to my heart. Thanks to Co-op’s Community Fund, I’ve sponsored the charity Aching Arms via their Christmas Bear Hug Campaign 2025, providing 40 comfort bears to bereaved families.”
Talking about death at home and planning ahead
Mary said her work has led to more open conversations about death within her own family.
“My children talk about death more now and are always asking me questions. My six-year-old is fascinated by what I do! I love this because it makes them less afraid of death and encourages healthy discussions, which I think is really important,” said Mary.
She has also planned her own funeral and made personal choices about music and where she would like her ashes scattered. “Funeral planning is really important; it takes pressure off your loved ones and helps to ease financial burden,” said Mary.
Advice for others in funeralcare
Her advice to others working in the sector is focused on self-care and support.
“Be kind to yourself. Make sure you take time to feel your emotions and do not be afraid to reach out for support when you need to.”
Mary’s story reflects a wider point often raised by practitioners across bereavement-facing roles: that training and experience in one area of care can transfer into another, particularly where communication, compassion and practical organisation are central.
More information about Co-op Funeralcare Cheadle is available via the Co-op website listing for the Cheadle branch.
